My Hubby loves to spoil me. Here is a trick he does every week for an extra dose of love. You could do this every week with your spouse or just once a month. He printed up a list of nice things he could do for me. He then cuts up that list into even rectangles and then folded them in half. He placed the list of kind things in a tin I gave him awhile back (It had a cookie in it.) I draw from it and he decides if I can see it or not. Sometimes he keeps it a surprise for a week and sometimes he asks me when I would want to do that certain thing.
Here are somethings I already picked: Go out to eat, Go for a walk, Love note, Took me shopping, and slave for a day (that was fun).
There are so many ideas you could throw in there. Here are some that I found for men and women.
Back massage
Write a love note telling why you married him/her
Do something unexpected like clean the bathroom
Pray with him/her
wash the dishes
text him during work everyday that week saying something nice
buy her/him his favorite drink or food
Be right there when he gets home from work
breakfast in bed
clean the house
bake a special dessert
Make a cup of coffee
Run an errand for him/her
Lets him/her sleep in
Watch a game with him
extra cuddle time
Flowers and candy
make him his favorite dinner
watch a movie
Play a board game